Friday, September 24, 2010

School, Friends, Blessings

With me not really being a journaler and Beth liking to write in her physical journal and not share whatever it is that she writes in there, we might be the worst bloggers ever. If you've checked the website a bunch and are continually disappointed, well sorry. We're busy, ok? But, here's an update, an anecdote from a little while ago.

On our first day going to the IES (school) building, we both were not expecting much. We were concerned about how good our classes might be, what kind of classmates we might have, and in general, were feeling a bit jaded going into our fifth year of college.

On our hour walk to school, we have a ten minute walk through a park, then around a half-hour going down a busy street, then we walk along the Vatican walls to St. Peter's Square, walk down the street from St. Peter's to the Castel Sant'Angelo, walk across a bridge built under the Roman Emperor Hadrian, and arrive at school.

This first morning, Beth -as she's done so many times since- reminded me that we should take time to pray. We prayed the Angelus walking through the park, and afterwards asked for an awareness of something more throughout the day. We had been thinking fairly negatively about school, and the start of the program, and we felt like that wasn't the way to start out a semester in Rome. So we prayed for God's blessing, to open our eyes to His presence throughout the day.

As happens so frequently, we forgot about that desire for more, and throughout the day were disheartened by the people in the program. At the end of the first orientation day there was one last talk on how we were supposed to apply for our permits to stay in Italy, and Beth and I were dispirited. We hadn't realized our own failure at that point, we just weren't feeling good about things in general. There was an empty chair next to Beth in the lecture hall, and ten minutes into the talk a blonde haired girl came in and sat down next to Beth. During a break in the talk, we had a chance to chat with her, and after introductions and talking about majors and all of that, we slowly came to realize that this girl, Tess, was really interesting. She told Beth that her name was actually Anastassia, and Beth asked if it was after the Saint. Yes it was, and, as came out in the rest of the conversation, Tess is a practicing Catholic and was hoping that she could make it to daily Mass right after the meeting.

Tess is from South Bend, Indiana, and goes to Indiana University. Her boyfriend, Bob, goes to Wabash College, and is also here in Rome for the fall semester, studying Greek and Latin. Tess is living with her sister, who is here in Rome studying Canon Law, and Bob is at an intensive Duke University program, living at the school. We've gotten together with them many times already, and are growing to be good friends. There is no question that our prayers on that first day were answered. Even though we had forgotten what we asked for during our walk in the park that morning, God has blessed us so much with the joy and companionship of two good friends, Bob and Tess.

And Tess told us a few days ago that when she left school on that first day and told Bob about meeting us, he exclaimed, "It's the Holy Spirit. It's the Holy Spirit!"

I think Bob's right.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

The Apartment

We promise, posts on what we're doing here in Rome will come...but the most common question we get asked is what the apartment is like, if we're happy with it, and how our neighborhood feels. So, if a picture's worth a thousand words, here's the longest post so far.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

The Patio


I find creating my first 'blog post' to be a little overwhelming. So I'm going to write about our Roman Patio and hope for more insightful posts to follow. Either that or just set the standards low.

We are so lucky for the beautiful apartment that we have here in Rome. We also just found out yesterday that,with being married, we have cut our IES living cost in half... which is great. This might be about the only 'married benefit' that IES offers though, because I'm pretty sure we are thought of as either weirdos or crazies. More about that later.... in a more insightful post.

Back to the patio. Attached to the apartment is a beautiful patio which,come to thing of it, is probably the size of our actual apartment. Funny. But the apartment doesn't feel small, it's really pretty big for Italian living standards. When you walk in there is a couch, a little table and two chairs and a big bookshelf. But that's not all.... open the closet doors and you have a kitchen! Kind of funny but it is everything we need (except an oven, dishwasher and space to actually cook). Then down the hall way there is the bathroom followed by the bedroom. We have a nice (firm) stationary bed. and a window which looks out over apartments buildings. It's actually a private enough view though.

Oh boy. Back to the patio. The patio has nice brick floor, 2 tables, 7 chairs, lots of little lights and candles and about 50 potted plants (Sam thinks 31). It is such a nice space to be outside in the sunlight, eat lunch dry our clothes. It really does make a difference to have the little chunk of 'land'. I'm thinking about taking out some bricks and starting a garden. laughs.

So that's the patio. Maybe sets the scene for more insightful posts to come. Sam and I are really happy and have been eating lots of pasta. I'm starting to wonder what else you can cook here.... kind of at a loss.

Missing our dear family and friends and love hearing from you.
Love,
Beth (and Sam walking around in his boxers)

First Post

Hi everyone! We currently have zero followers, so we're writing to a large audience. Hopefully our blog will be interesting enough for you all to continue reading as we add posts.

For anyone who isn't up to speed with our lives yet, here's a quick breakdown of what has been going on recently:

-December 8th, 2009: We got engaged on the steps of the cathedral in St. Paul.
-August 14th, 2010: We got married at St. Joseph's Church in beautiful Crosby, MN!
-August 16-21, 2010: Honeymoon in Charleston, SC.
-August 24-26: Left the US for studying abroad, day-trip to London, and arrived at Rimini.
-Aug. 26-28: Rimini Meeting.
-Aug. 29th: Moved in to our apartment in Rome!

We have lots to say about so many of these things, but I figured I'd just get the information out there right away. Sit tight, here come the posts...